Routines

Routines...

As we move through our daily routines, we often find ourselves just checking the box. I know for me, sometimes it’s simply a matter of clicking off the alarm at 5:05, checking the clarity in my eyes, and getting out of bed. We check the box by getting dressed and heading out the door to our local AOs. Another box gets checked when we start with our disclaimers and the usual warm-up routine (come on...you know your AO has a go-to stretch routine no matter who’s leading). And finally, we check the last box—Circle of Trust, announcements, and prayer—because we know it’s important.

But lately, it’s occurred to me that sometimes we don’t put enough emphasis on actually getting things off our chest. We come together as men to get stronger and to lead stronger. And yet, we can overlook the power of releasing those thoughts, prayers, thank-yous, and praises to the men around us.

This is the Circle of Trust, isn’t it?

Sure, an FNG needs to be around long enough to build that trust—but once he’s there, the support should be undeniable. And it should be encouraged.

So here’s my challenge:

Next time you're in the COT, don’t just stand there waiting for it to end. Say something. It doesn’t have to be profound. It doesn’t have to be polished. It just has to be real.

Whether it’s a praise, a struggle, a prayer request, or even a simple thank-you—speak up. You never know who needs to hear it. And more importantly, you never know what healing or strength might come from just letting it out.

That’s what the Circle of Trust is for. Let’s not just check that box—let’s use it.

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